Family offices operate across both institutional and personal realms, creating an unusually broad attack surface. Cybersecurity is not a onetime product or service of any one vendor; it is an ongoing program. Understanding the distinctions among cybersecurity vendors is a critical first step in building a coherent program.

By their nature, family offices face heightened cybersecurity risk. A single weak link—such as a staff member deceived by a social-engineering email, an outdated router in a residence, a misconfigured Microsoft tenant, or the absence of endpoint detection and response—can provide a foothold for compromise.

Cybersecurity is not a onetime purchase or a checklist to complete, nor is it the product or service of any one vendor; it is an ongoing program. Tools matter only insofar as they address defined risks and operate within a cohesive framework. “Mostly covered” is insufficient if the breach enters through what remains uncovered.

Most family offices assume their IT team or managed service provider handles cybersecurity. These roles are essential—they maintain systems, patch devices, and manage the technology stack—but they are not positioned to view risk from above. When cyber risk lives entirely within IT, the office loses an independent view: the strategic perspective that connects technology with governance, insurance, and exposure across both the institutional and personal spheres—and any grey areas unique to family offices.

What works in practice is orchestration: a program that coordinates multiple providers and platforms—guided by policy, procedures, education and governance—so that controls reinforce one another and weak links are systematically closed.

Yet the marketplace is crowded with cybersecurity vendors, each claiming to be the solution. The challenge for family offices is to separate what each type of provider actually does from what they only appear to do. Understanding these distinctions is the first step toward building a coherent program—one in which each partner plays a defined role within a unified strategy.

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Understanding the vendor landscape

Each section below explains when to engage a provider and defines the typical scope of their services, as well as the owners responsible for keeping the program coherent.

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Tony Gebely 
CEO
Annapurna Cybersecurity Advisors, LLC.

Mostly covered” is insufficient if the breach enters through what remains uncovered.

Where to begin

A practical sequence can turn a crowded market into a workable program. Key steps include:

1. Appoint a program owner (integrator/vCISO):

Begin with a comprehensive risk assessment to identify weak links and prioritize action. Update policy, define governance and evidence requirements, assign owners, and establish coordination across providers.

2. Leverage the IT you already have:

Direct your internal team or managed service provider (MSP) to:

a. Implement and run the stack—endpoints, patching, networks, backup and restore testing, and monitoring.

b. Operate the technical platforms and training.

The objective is alignment and uplift, not replacement, unless the assessment reveals capability gaps.

3. Transfer residual risk with cyber insurance:

Work with a broker experienced in family-office contexts to cover both the organization (commercial) and family members (personal). Align controls and evidence with policy terms, confirm the approved incident-response panel (including counsel and crisis communications), and document clear activation steps.

4. Layer in targeted providers where risk lives: Based on the assessment and risk appetite, add:

a. Family: Cyber and device protection for residences and personal devices.

b. Data: Broker/privacy monitoring to reduce external exposure.

c. Specialized services: For high-exposure scenarios (e.g., penetration testing).

Throughout vendor evaluations, use these categories as your framework. For each pitch, ask where the provider fits, what they will—and will not—cover, and who will own outcomes. This approach reveals overlaps and gaps, and avoids the false promise that any single vendor can “do cybersecurity” for a family office.

Revisit the vendor landscape at budgeting, renewal, and onboarding moments to keep scope and accountability explicit. Over time, this disciplined approach yields a durable program: the right roles doing the right work, with additions driven by demonstrable risk rather than market noise.

Tony Gebely

Tony is the founder and CEO of Annapurna Cybersecurity, an advisory firm that helps successful families and family offices build durable cybersecurity programs. Prior to founding Annapurna, Tony spent more than a decade in technology leadership at Family Office Exchange—including as Chief Technology Officer—where he served as a subject-matter expert to the firm’s global membership, advising families, publishing on best practices, leading the first Global Family Security Workshop, and launching the Technology Operations & Data Security Network for 300+ executives.

Over time, this disciplined approach yields a durable program: the right roles doing the right work, with additions driven by demonstrable risk rather than market noise.

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