Own Your Worth ft. Allyson Felix
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Good evening, welcome. It is
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a thrill and a joy to have you
and to be here tonight together.
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And I want to start actually
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not by asking Allyson
anything, but by sharing,
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since it feels like for the moment
we're a family right for the evening.
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We're coming together
to share with you the absolute
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absurdity of my sitting here
because as I said to analysts in
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and while I said I couldn't pass
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the high school physical ed exam,
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you know the standard exam.
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All you have to do is hold yourself
like this for like 20 seconds.
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And I cheated. I was like
putting my foot on the bar
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below to take weight off
because I couldn't do it.
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So of course, here I am in between
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a former professional football player
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and a gold medalist Olympiad. Of course,
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this is the first of all, Jane,
I told Allyson this earlier.
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It's, I'm just a regular
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athlete compared to
I don't know why he's saying that.
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He does, Let's give Allyson
a round of applause, please, for
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just being an amazing world
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class athlete and um me being up here.
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It's an honor. I see you
and the greatness that you have
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and the example that you've been
for our community.
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I applaud you. So thank you.
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Thank you so much I appreciate that.
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Really, what an honor to be here with you.
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So let me please tell you
all to be totally comfortable.
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Make noise clank your plates.
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Eat more food. Enjoy yourself.
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We'll have just a little bit
of conversation here,
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but please don't don't stop enjoying
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so. And by the way,
for anyone who doesn't know Wale, Wale
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runs our athlete and entertainer business,
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and we are lucky
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all of us at UBS to work
alongside him every day.
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Thank you, Jane Thank you.
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All right. So let's dig in here,
which is so juicy and exciting,
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the Wes.. Wes spoke,
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and I think all of us here in the room
were in the room, on the deck.
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We were so moved
and so I'm standing there as I'm listening
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to Wes and I'm thinking to myself,
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I really, if I'm going
to be honest with myself,
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I don't know if I would have been able
to make the same decision that you did,
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and I feel scared of many things
and try to manage that.
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And I'm wondering, were you scared?
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Did you feel really scared taking on Nike
and putting yourself in that position?
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Yeah, I think scared is an understatement.
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I was absolutely terrified.
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And I think the thing
that really made me so scared was because
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I had friends of mine,
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teammates and colleagues
who had gone through this.
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You know, they had,
you know, started families.
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They had hit pregnancies,
they had contracts paused or terminated,
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and they live that and I watched them and
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I saw their struggle.
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And so, you know, as a teenager,
I started as a professional
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and I had been witnessing this
go on for so long.
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And was it a presumption of that's
just how it goes? Absolutely.
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Absolutely. I think, you know,
I start to think back why?
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Because I always had this thought of like
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when I start my family,
I'm probably going to be done running,
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you know, I'm going to be done
with my sponsor, my sport.
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And I don't think that there was ever
a time there wasn't
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that someone sat me down and said, like,
No, you need to wait.
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But it was literally what I saw.
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I saw, you know, women just struggle.
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And it wasn't that they weren't capable,
but there was never there was never
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someone who was celebrated.
There was never a mother
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who was celebrated who was like,
You know, you had a baby? Absolutely.
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More like, this is happening
in the shadows. You know, this is a fight.
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This is a struggle.
You no longer have sponsorship.
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So growing up, seeing that it was just
like, you know, it was ingrained in me.
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And so when it was my time
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and when timing was also really bad,
when I was going through negotiations,
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also stepping in say,
you know, this whole family life,
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I was terrified that it was just,
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you know, I knew
I wanted to compete longer,
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but I felt like I wasn't
going to have the option.
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So you were terrified.
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I just want to know that I'm normal.
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Absolutely. That's
what I'm looking for is a little.
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Therapy here in front of
everyone is something
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Wes who is just such a great storyteller
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and such an amazing big brother
who has always taken care of me.
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But on this, he's
been on this journey with me,
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and when I was really struggling
with what to do, you know, he reminded me
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that you can use your voice
and even if it shakes,
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you can still, you can still speak
your truth and share his story.
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And I felt like that was me
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like I was, you know, I've never been one
who's really outspoken.
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I've never had big, bold opinions.
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I've always been an athlete
who's hyper focused on performance.
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Like my job is to get medals, you know,
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get world records,
you know, that's what it is.
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And so to think that I would step out in
this way was just so unlike me.
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But also it was the importance of it
and just the deep belief
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in doing the right thing.
That really shifted things for me.
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No, Jane, you make a good point,
especially when you you talk about
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your brother and I sit here
the whole night.
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I go down to the Saysh store and I can't
get any shoes myself or whatever.
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But but what it brings
me to is the question that I think
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men in my position.
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Now I'm leading a business former athlete.
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I've done well for myself.
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How do I get behind your movement, women?
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Maternity issues
without getting in the way,
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without being the megaphone for women
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I want how do I help you
and other women in your position?
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I think even asking that question is
incredible, you know, having that support.
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I think listening is huge
and really listening,
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you know, to what women need
and how we can be supportive.
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I think amplifying the story, really,
you know, sharing it.
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I mean, if that was the incredible thing
about when I came out with the New York
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Times op ed that was both amazing
and heartbreaking was
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that there was this outpouring of women
with their own stories.
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And it wasn't sports,
you know, just the sports industry.
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It was across all industries and story
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after story of a similar experience.
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And that's it's crazy
that this was not long ago.
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This is a couple of years ago
that this was all happening.
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And so we have a lot of work to do,
and I think it's calling out inequalities
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as we see them and really being bold
with that and taking action.
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No, I think that's that second part,
taking action a lot of times,
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especially in the communities
we we hear a lot of rhetoric.
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We hear talk all the time.
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A big event happens in our communities
and I want to say, well,
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when they start hiring
more people, if we take a more, you know,
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approach where we're
taking the lead on things,
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not waiting for the op ed to come out
as a community, I think you've yes.
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And which is I applaud
what we're doing here
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with our women segment
and in the entire segment is that
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we want to have not just have
these discussions,
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but we want to make sure
that we're taking action.
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So I think that last part that you
you talked about taking that action
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for me, it hits home.
And so being a leader with that?
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Absolutely. Yeah.
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And it's true. It's
it's true what you say.
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It's it's not just an issue of athletes.
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That's sort of a place that we all gather
and look and are very interested in.
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But the not being mom
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friendly or welcoming
to that stage of life
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or making accommodations
that challenges across all industries.
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Yeah, I think, you know, something
that I have in common with so many women
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is that at some place,
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at some time in life, you know,
we've been told to know our place
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and we've been told
that our story is over or, you know,
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things just start to slip away
once you have a family
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or taken off of certain things
or you have less responsibilities.
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And for me, going to Tokyo,
you know, my fifth Olympic Games
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was so special because for the first time
it was bigger than the clock.
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It was bigger than, you
know, running for a medal.
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And it meant so much more
because I had connected
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with all of these people
who had been in a similar situation.
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And I was a representation like,
you know, here I am.
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I was told that I shouldn't be here.
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I was told that I was too old that,
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you know, after becoming a mom,
you're done through it. Yeah.
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And you know, it was a fight
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and it was a struggle
and was hard at every turn of the way.
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But you know, you keep fighting
and you keep going.
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And I feel like that,
you know, that pushed me so much
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to to be the representation
and to have so much more to run for.
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And when you won and won
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and once and you were, you like,
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Yeah, yeah, you look at me
now, like, did you?
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Because I was I did have a little moment
when I I crossed the finish line
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and I looked down at my sights
and these beautiful handcrafted Saysh
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spikes. And I was.
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I do this in my own shoes wow. Yeah,
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it's incredible, so so
but it is, here's my thing,
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I see what I've been trying
to get across to
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the finance in the world
with athletes and,
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you know, people in general,
we tend to be good people, right?
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We tend to want to give back
to our communities.
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A lot of times they see athletes
and they see this
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group of men or women around this
and they call them entourages of policies.
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But again, it's I think, our
way of giving back.
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So you, let's say
the Nike situation never happened.
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Would you have had this sense of finding
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a way to get back to community
or be an example for people?
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Would you have done that?
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That's a great question.
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I think, you know, my whole journey.
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You know, it's just
been a really organic experience.
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You know, I was as each kind of different
season of life has approached.
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You know, I've learned about myself
and I've grown and I remember,
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you know, starting this sport
as a teenager and being so shy and just,
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you know, just really in my box
and over the years, you know, being able
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to step outside of that
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and I've been always,
you know, had a heart for my community.
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But I think I my
my eyes have just been open
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to so many different passions
through what I've been through
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and having my daughter, you know, I had
I gave birth two months early
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and I had a very traumatic
birth experience and my eyes
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were open to the maternal mortality crisis
that black women are facing.
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And so then there was another passion
there, and it was just like
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each experience, you know, has really kind
of pushed me to advocate for women
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and in different spaces.
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And no, I don't think if those weren't my,
my own, you know,
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authentic experiences, I probably wouldn't
have found myself going down this path.
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But I'm so grateful for my journey
and so grateful where
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track and field has taken me,
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and I never would have imagined to,
you know, to go down this path in life.
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And I'm sorry, I have already mentioned
this to people, so I'm repeating myself.
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But my favorite picture of Allyson
and her daughter is with her daughter
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wearing a T-shirt that says, My mother
runs faster than your mother.
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Yeah, we can thank my husband for that.
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He also has a shirt.
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My wife Is... it's a whole thing!
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Well, I can assure you
my daughter is here,
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and she will never Ally say hi.
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she will never, ever, ever wear that shirt
, can we get a shirt that says
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my mother runs faster
than your father too?
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I like that. Let's be real. Let's do this.
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So Wes did an incredible job
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talking about our own your worth.
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We have a real platform for women.
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We call it Own your worth run by Carey
who spoke earlier. And I yeah,
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and I wonder, I mean,
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you have to find that strength somewhere.
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You had to find the inspiration.
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Where did you find
you said you weren't a big opinion person?
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Where did you find the strength,
the force to own your worth?
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I think it's really interesting
because I think I really struggle.
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You know, there at the beginning,
I think, you know, as an athlete
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and when you're dealing with, you know,
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someone offering you
and an amount of money,
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it can really get tricky messing
with your head with just your own value.
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You know, you start to believe that, well,
maybe I am done.
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Maybe that is my worth.
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And maybe it is time for me to move on.
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And so I think I was really doubting that
especially in the early on stages
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where I had just had my daughter,
you know, she was in the Nike for a month
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and I was dealing with my own health
complications and I just felt so far
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away from ever being at an elite level.
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And I was feeling just so low, you know,
I had to hide my pregnancy for so long.
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I was training. No, how did you do that?
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So I didn't have anything in writing,
you know, with an offer.
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And so it's literally
what happens and track and field women
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hide their pregnancies.
And so I was doing the same thing.
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I was training while it was still dark
5:00 in the morning
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and, you know, I was still competing
while I was pregnant and no one knew.
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And so it was just
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this time that should be celebrated
and should be incredible for me.
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I I wasn't going out of the house.
I was wearing baggy clothes.
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You know, whenever I did
have to venture out and and let me just
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ask, is that because you knew that
if they found out
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that you were pregnant,
that you would lose leverage to negotiate?
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Yes, even the 70% that less than
I had been making that was offered to me
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even before they were aware
that I was pregnant.
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We still I knew that
because I didn't have anything on paper.
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If they did know that I was pregnant, then
that would probably disappear as well.
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So it was a really delicate situation
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and I was still trying to navigate
all of that as well.
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And so it was a time
that was just really difficult.
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But to go back to really what you asked,
I think what helped me
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with my worth was just
my circle, my family.
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You know, I come from a very long line
of strong women.
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And for me, you know, I never saw anything
different in my family.
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You know, it's a family
that definitely has more women than men
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and just women who have always made
a way out of difficult circumstances.
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And I've seen that, you know,
I've seen that lived.
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And so when it came time, you know,
to find that strength in that courage,
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I leaned on, you know, my mom and,
you know, my support system and Wes
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who has literally walks
every step of this journey with me.
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And you know, while you asked
how you know, how can men support,
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you know, he was like,
this huge support to me
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um just by encouraging me,
you know, and and being there, no matter
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what happened, I knew that I was going
to have my family to fall back on.
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It's a great story.
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I mean, I think that's that's great and
Wes Thank you Wes for being a big brother
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the question I have you, Allyson is.
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Starting the business,
we hear, we see the store.
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Everyone has your shoes on for an athlete
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getting into the entrepreneur spirit
we see now, that's that's big for us.
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Tell us about the low times.
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Tell me something about the bumps
that came across the way,
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but you were able to push through.
Tell us about that.
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Yeah, I mean, what we built Saysh
during the pandemic
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and so already, you know,
it was really challenging.
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And so of course, we have gone through,
you know, our bumps in the road
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and whether that's, you know, supply chain
or whatever, you know, has happened.
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But I think the most incredible thing is
we have this great team
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and being an athlete
that has been in an individual sport
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and has really been cool
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for me to come together
and just be deeply collaborative
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with others and see, you know,
we have so many experts in their areas
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and we are a team and
and you know, there's going to be storms.
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But I believe that I am so confident
that we can navigate those
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with just our incredible
support that we have.
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How did your team earn your
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trust? I mean, Wes had
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it as a brother,
so you kind of have a leg up with that.
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And sometimes, you know, entertainers
and athletes get in trouble with family
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members, too is not always
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a great relationship for you and your team
with Lauren and team.
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How did they earn your trust?
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Well, at the core of what we do at Saysh
is, you know, is the mission
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and why we're here.
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And I think everyone has connected with
the purpose and starting with my story.
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We're all here because we want to serve
women and we want to push for equality.
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And so yes, our product is shoes,
but it's so much deeper than that.
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And I think when you have that purpose
that you can all sit around and you know,
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when you're doing work day in and day out
and when we all connect to that,
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there's just so much more meaning there.
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And so I connected with each person on
our team in that way and really believe,
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you know, that's what brings us together
as doing important work that is so much
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bigger than, you know, just products
and you always served by purpose.
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You always, always, always
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because we need something
beyond our just hour to hour.
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There has to be a bigger
something that we're all working towards.
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And and I'm a big believer.
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You have to constantly ask yourself
because it changes tonight.
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The answer is going to be different
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than what it is in three days
or three months or three years.
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But yeah, it's important to have so
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you all you have many of your remarkable
team members here. And
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do you think that
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basically like you're getting
now the feeling of doing,
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you know, because you're a runner
now this feels like, oh,
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you're on a basketball team
or the team made it?
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Yeah, it's been incredible
just to be able to work with others.
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And, like you said, having that purpose
and having that meaning
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and really striving to do things
differently, I think that's been
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the the best opportunity for me.
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I I never wanted anybody else to feel that
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feeling that I felt,
you know, when I got that phone call.
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After a decade of feeling
like I was a part
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of a family that lived,
I were a part of really believes.
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And so when it felt like, OK, I'm now
no longer, I have no more worth.
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I have nothing to offer here.
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And so just wanting to build things
in a different way
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and take a holistic approach and just really change the way that things are done.
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I wish you would
have known me when I retired.
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As soon as I retired,
Nike pulled my contract.
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So like, I can't get any more free
sneakers, so it's that's always
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been the case with me again.
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The story is amazing,
and I wanted to be an example for
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not only just women, but I think some men
the resiliency . And the thing
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that that touched me the most
is you having the courage to step out.
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I don't know if it was a slip from
your brother, Wes
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but early on he he kind of
was a little bit.
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His voice was shaky.
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How did you still have your resolve,
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which a bigger brother putting
a little bit of doubt in your mind?
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How do you push through that?
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I think just really there came to a point.
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I remember this vividly.
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I was so I talked about
how my daughter was in the NICU
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and we had a really difficult time.
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You know, I was just really watching her
fight and just some struggles there.
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But I had just came home from the hospital
and I was sitting in her nursery.
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And at this time, you know,
we're still going
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through a process of,
you know, difficult negotiations.
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Not sure what's going to happen.
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And Wes comes to me with a request
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for from Nike, for me to take part
in a Women's World Cup campaign.
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And here is this campaign
that is, you know, asking telling
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little girls that they can do anything
that they want to do
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while we're having this internal
You know, battle
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and this internal struggle for maternal,
you know, protections,
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and I at that point, it was just like,
I need to do this.
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And so it was my, you know,
it was my decision,
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and I just deeply believe that no matter
what the consequences were and you know,
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he's my big brother
and he's coming from a perspective
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from business that, you know,
is this the right time?
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And, you know, that
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definitely flashed in my head as well,
that a lot of money on the table?
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Yes, it's it was definitely
a very risky thing, but I was
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I was moving with my heart and
I was moving with what I felt was right.
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And I think the biggest thing was
I was looking at this little girl.
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You know, this girl
who had just fought for her life
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and thinking about the world
that she's going to grow up in?
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And if I don't do this,
this could be her fight.
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And, you know, I just felt like
I was in a position to be able
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to do something with really
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amazing. Amazing.
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OK. Your mind before we close and ax.
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I want to ask one question
because I'm what we're doing
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with my division
as we talk about legacy a lot.
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And this is going to be a little corny
because I'm going to say,
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you know, when the race is all done right,
so I'm going to say that.
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So when race is all done,
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what do you want your legacy to be?
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What will it be?
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I think had you asked me that,
you know, some years ago,
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my answer to you would have been,
you know, the most medals
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or the fastest times the world record
something, you know, in that realm.
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Today, I hope that, you know, it'll be
something surrounding fighting for women,
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changing the sport for for better
than when I arrived and continuing
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to always try to push for more
may be well on your way.
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Things are going well. Thank you.