What should you do if your child is stealing?
It can be a real shock to find out that your child has been stealing. Our discussion guide helps you discuss the topic with your child calmly and reasonably.
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It can be a real shock to find out that your child has been stealing. Our discussion guide helps you discuss the topic with your child calmly and reasonably.
From minor pilfering to serious shoplifting
Your little girl stole a lollipop from the kiosk? Your teenager swiped a designer shirt? Or perhaps you’ve noticed money missing from your wallet? Your child’s age and the seriousness of the theft are important factors when discussing their actions and the consequences with them. After all, theft isn’t the same in all cases.
Was it a dare, attention-seeking behavior or payback?
The reasons why a child might steal can vary greatly. It might be a dare, payback, a ploy for attention, an attempt to impress acquaintances or because a child feels disadvantaged. A calm, grounded discussion with your child can shed light on the situation and encourage them to reflect on their actions.
Take a deep breath and stay calm
Finding out your child has stolen something can stir up a lot of negative emotions. Simply take a deep breath – do not approach your child angry or thoughtlessly. Talk to them calmly.
Discussion guide for parents
The main points in a nutshell
UBS’s educational principles
This article was written in collaboration with educator Marianne Heller, who has years of experience in teaching financial education and debt prevention programs for children and young people.
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